Posts by Anders Andersen

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Do I have to believe in Jesus to be saved?

by unsure in

do i have to believe in jesus to be saved?.

i was raised as a jehovah's witness.

i was born in.

Anders Andersen

The fact that you are even having these questions may be an indication in itself.
If those questions were really, really important - say a matter of eternal life and death - shouldn't the answers have been made abundantly clear to everyone millennia ago?

Would any loving God leave people in doubt about if the answers made the difference between 'salvation' and 'destruction'?

Do the many people in countries with a non-Christian culture (like China, India, etc.etc.) have any chance a finding these questions, let alone the answers? They may never even meet a Christian or see a Bible in their lifetime...

Or...what if it's the Christians who are mistaken, asking the wrong questions - about Jesus - therefore never finding the true way to salvation?

So many questions, and the lack of answers from above is both overwhelming and convincing...(at least to me)

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We are like pet dogs that run off with wild dogs...

by dubstepped in

jw
friends

...and need a bullet to the head.

my wife found a post on instagram where some jw nutter claims that either lett or morris said this in a talk.

any confirmation or video of such?

Anders Andersen

We could easily change the narrative just a little bit and get a completely different situation:

A slave owner had a slave....

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June 27, 2017 TO ALL CONGREGATIONS Re: Donations to Regional Conventions Using jw.org

by wifibandit in

june 27, 2017 to all congregations in britain and northern ireland re: donations to regional conventions using jw.org.

june 27, 2017 to all congregations in ireland re: donations to regional conventions using jw.org.

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Anders Andersen

How is Watchtower assuming the JW want to hand over their money a 'provision'?

These guys have no idea what words mean....

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June 28, 2017 TO ALL BODIES OF ELDERS Re: Important Reminder—Volunteers

by wifibandit in

june 28, 2017 to all bodies of elders re: important reminder—volunteers.

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Anders Andersen

Dear brothers,

Apparently the Holy Spirit doesn't make sure the godless, unclean and unqualified (I.e. didn't write enough service hours) are not used to move Holy Furniture. (Do the have the Ark of the Covenant in there?).

So please cover for the Holy Spirit and update the privacy-sensitive data we have collected on our cult members in a timely fashion.

Cheers!

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Oct 2017 WT again shunning instructions

by Daniel1555 in

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Anders Andersen

Well at least Watchtower acknowledges that their behavior is anything but normal.

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Watchtower teaches that Jesus dying on the stake is no longer certain

by Listener in

the watchtower has held for many years that jesus died on a stake and held strongly to this teaching.

w 1951 3/15 the above agrees with the new world translation of the christian greek scriptures in its appendix, page 769, in saying that the instrument upon which jesus was nailed was a stake without a crossbeam, and not the religiously represented “cross”; and that the greek word used for that instrument in ancient time meant a “stake” and not the conventional religious cross.

they are no longer certain on this point.

Anders Andersen

@Vanderhoven

https://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/questions/did-jesus-die-on-cross/

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The saddest song of all time?

by Bad_Wolf in

i would pick this one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=th2w6oxx0kq.

i don't know how so many are happy or fine if thinking this life is it.

haven't lost parents yet, but when with them, sometimes i'll think of this song.

Anders Andersen

St. James Infirmary. Somehow I'm always identifying with the man making that sad, lone, fearsome walk.

There are many versions but I know the one by Van Morrison best: https://youtu.be/s_Tc08tIBR4

And then there is Anywhere I lay my head by Tom Waits. The feeling of both abandonment, loneliness and acceptance that anywhere can (or must) be home. I guess it appeals to me as I've been known to say (when abroad) that as long as my wife (and now my daughter too) are with me, I wouldn't really care if my whole country and everyone I know suddenly disappeared. Probably that is what also made me have less issue with losing all JW friends. That country just disappeared and I don't care too much.

https://youtu.be/mPT1sjbGYNg

I heard this song the first time in an acapella version, and I like it much better. Somehow Tom Waits' voice distracts me from the song. Unfortunately that acapella version isn't online (except a tiny sample here http://www.montezuma.nl/sites/default/files/Anywhere%20I%20Lay%20My%20Head.mp3?uuid=5955511dce3e3 ) Somehow it's much sadder like that.

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Dutch conventions organized like circuits

by Gorbatchov in

jw
friends

here in holland jw.org is organizing for the first time the yearly conventions like circuits.

the whole summer the new convention hall is used for small group conventions instead of 10.000 seat external halls.. it keeps the money in the organization.

not renting external buildings.. the 29.000 witnesses here are divided now into 2.000 seat audience.. g..

Anders Andersen

From the Borg's perspective:

Upsides:

Charge fee per publisher and grab money instead of paying money to 3rd party venue.
Easier to hide dwindling attendance numbers: rearrange a bit, go from 10 conventions to 9, and everyone suddenly experiences an attendance increase while overall numbers are actually down!
Less journalists and film crews visiting and asking hard questions. They might come for a 10k cult fest in a big venue; 2k in a church building isn't extraordinary as there are more than a handful mega churches with that number of visitors each week.
More brothers who can be made to feel important because more speakers are needed, and with non-assignments like parking duty.

Downsides:

No very big events to show we're The One True Religion. All big meetings are equally bland and boring. Easier for people to stay away.
More speakers needed = speaker quality goes down = less indoctrination power.
Even harder for youngsters to find a ~~fuckbuddy~~ ~~mate~~ spiritual healthty partner --> more 'unevenly yoked' marriages -> more people leaving.

Well money is their first and only priority anyways....

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Looking for experiences from those who are married with kids and have dissacociated

by UnshackleTheChains in

this is a question for those who officially left the organisation and are married; and your spouse and kids are still in.'.

i just wanted to find out what your experience has been when you dissacociated.the following questions go through my mind all the time.

it always comes back to the what if's!.

Anders Andersen

I'm not officially DA. But I didn't fade either.
I went from being an active bro with some privileges (reading WT, public prayer) to atheist evolutionist apostate in a single day. For myself it took about 4-6 weeks, but everyone else only saw the result. After I told my wife my findings, I never went to a single meeting, and she told everyone why.

Do some witnesses still come to your house for association with your still in spouse? Or do all of them avoid your home like the plague?
If they do, they do it during the day when I'm not home. Only 2 BFF of both of us visit when I'm there, but not nearly as often as before.
Others (some pioneer friends who had dinner at our place every week) never came back at all.
Do some of the more down to earth...keeping it real ones still talk to you as normal when they come to visit your spouse etc?
They do, but I'm somewhat sure they wouldn't if I were officially DA/DF.
Do they allow their kids over for sleep overs and association and carry on as normal?
N/A as our kid is too young for that. Otherwise I doubt they would. Only the BFF kids ever visit us, but only when it's needed (i.e. my wife babysits them).
Did you write to relatives who are JW's and respectfully say they need not worry; that they could still come over, but that you would respectfully refrain from discussing anything spiritual out of respect for their beliefs?
Yes I did. In-laws are JW (my own family all POMO). BIL (an elder) and SIL shun me. FIL/MIL are shocked and sad but treat me as before. But I know MIL will follow the WT rules and shun me if I'm officially out.
Do any or even all of your JW relatives avoid visiting your home despite the fact your spouse and children are still attending?
Yes BIL/SIL. Good thing they live in another country and aren't around often. They were recently and avoided me as much as they could.
Did your dissacociation cause a lot of stress between you and your spouse and children?
Wife: yes. Two years of stress and alienation. I made sure to never bring up JW related topics. We only talked about those first month I was out as my wife wanted to understand me (which she still doesn't). By now she is capable of seeing me (instead of the Satanic apostate) again. She wouldn't have stayed if it weren't for our child, who she thinks deserves both parents 24/7.
Kid doesn't know, is only 2 years old.
Did your experience affect your mental health?
No, not really. But I'm capable of detaching myself from (lost) friends and perfectly happy solitary. I'm also not prone to stress or anxiety. I did notice myself lying in bed awake, having hypothetical conversations with my wife.

Was it worth it? Or do you wish you had simply faded?
I can't play pretend, and will not be someone I'm not to please others. So yes, it's worth it. I couldn't have done the long fade.

By the way, if you're capable of pretending/faking, I suggest to fake starting research and bring your wife with you on your trip. My wife was mostly shocked that I didn't inform her when I started my research. It was a breach of trust. I might even have gotten her out...I've heard more than one exjw relate the same. Don't keep your spouse in the dark too long.

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FFA - 4H - Conscious matter or not allowed?

by Jennifer Lehrer in

i was baptized 4 years ago, i have 2 little girls who love their bunnies, so this year we reached out to 4h and started our own 4h group - this was after asking the elders for counsel.

none provided.

now after doing this for 3 months i am being brought before a judicial committee for neutrality.

Anders Andersen

Honey, everything is between you and your God. Nobody has any authority over you but you!
I hope you stand for your principles.

I don't know much about 4-H, but it doesn't look non-neutral to me?

Also, I know a brother in Brazil who works for CISV (see http://www.cisv.org/ and https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/CISV_International ) and that kinda looks similar? He doesn't get into trouble for it.

As for neutrality:

Watchtower registered with the UN as an NGO (see also https://www.jwfacts.com/watchtower/united-nations-association.php )
Watchtower regularly takes part in OCSE (a political organisation in Europe) conferences (see https://www.jwfacts.com/watchtower/politics.php#political )

How dare any of those who speak for Watchtower condemn you?

And by the way, welcome to the forum! We don't bite!